Relationship Therapy for Couples
Relationship therapy is a real passion of mine. As an experienced individual's therapist for over a decade, I have noticed that very often, relationship problems are more effectively solved as a couple then separately in individual sessions where only one half of a dynamic can be addressed.
I've also noticed that unless, the relationship problem is addressed, not only does it rarely solve itself positively, it will continue to be a drain on the individuals and can have a detrimental impact beyond the relationship, on many other areas of a person's life. If it's a major stressor, it can lead to the inability to concentrate or function optimally at work, to numbing out, to erratic moods, to isolation, preoccupation, self-medication or anger which can come out on the children or other bystanders. Of course, it makes sense that our significant relationships effect us deeply and have an impact outside of that relationship, and it seems common sense that if the root of the problem is relational, the solution is also relational. This is in fact not only common sense but also science; from the perspective of attachment science, we humans are wired for survival, and connection is part of that survival strategy. We are relational beings and we need secure attachment to thrive within and beyond our relationships.
As the father of attachment theory, John Bowlby said "All of us, from cradle to grave, are happiest when life is organised as a series of excursions, long or short, from the secure base provided by our attachment figures.”
What is Emotional Solutions Couples Therapy?
Emotional Solutions Couple's therapy is relationship therapy which focused on establishing a secure emotional connection first, before moving onto finding solutions to everyday struggles. Our goal is to help make the relationship into an emotionally comforting, stable and engaged space for both partners, a space that the couple recognizes and can continue to recreate together long after therapy, a space in which the couple is united in tackling the issues that inevitably arise as we go through life.
This therapy is greatly informed by Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) as well as Solution Focused Therapy, combining the deep sensitivity of emotionally focused therapy with the empowering and practical spirit of the solution-focused approach.
How do I get started?
It's very quick and easy to get started, just book your free Consultation & Intake
We offer a free no-obligation 40min consultation and intake during which we assess your needs together, discuss the process, answer any questions you may have and agree to our plan together.
I've also noticed that unless, the relationship problem is addressed, not only does it rarely solve itself positively, it will continue to be a drain on the individuals and can have a detrimental impact beyond the relationship, on many other areas of a person's life. If it's a major stressor, it can lead to the inability to concentrate or function optimally at work, to numbing out, to erratic moods, to isolation, preoccupation, self-medication or anger which can come out on the children or other bystanders. Of course, it makes sense that our significant relationships effect us deeply and have an impact outside of that relationship, and it seems common sense that if the root of the problem is relational, the solution is also relational. This is in fact not only common sense but also science; from the perspective of attachment science, we humans are wired for survival, and connection is part of that survival strategy. We are relational beings and we need secure attachment to thrive within and beyond our relationships.
As the father of attachment theory, John Bowlby said "All of us, from cradle to grave, are happiest when life is organised as a series of excursions, long or short, from the secure base provided by our attachment figures.”
What is Emotional Solutions Couples Therapy?
Emotional Solutions Couple's therapy is relationship therapy which focused on establishing a secure emotional connection first, before moving onto finding solutions to everyday struggles. Our goal is to help make the relationship into an emotionally comforting, stable and engaged space for both partners, a space that the couple recognizes and can continue to recreate together long after therapy, a space in which the couple is united in tackling the issues that inevitably arise as we go through life.
This therapy is greatly informed by Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) as well as Solution Focused Therapy, combining the deep sensitivity of emotionally focused therapy with the empowering and practical spirit of the solution-focused approach.
How do I get started?
It's very quick and easy to get started, just book your free Consultation & Intake
We offer a free no-obligation 40min consultation and intake during which we assess your needs together, discuss the process, answer any questions you may have and agree to our plan together.
If you're seeing this, you're one of the very few lucky couples to whom I would be open to gift 6 hours of free couple's therapy!
I am interested in practising with specific types of couples so if it's a match, you would be helping me with my development as a couple's therapist as I help you in the development of your relationship and if you enjoy our work together I would love to receive a nice positive review from you in exchange for your free sessions.
That's all there is to it. If you're interested in the free sessions, be sure to note down "6h gift" when you book your consultation.
BOOK HERE BELOW
I am interested in practising with specific types of couples so if it's a match, you would be helping me with my development as a couple's therapist as I help you in the development of your relationship and if you enjoy our work together I would love to receive a nice positive review from you in exchange for your free sessions.
That's all there is to it. If you're interested in the free sessions, be sure to note down "6h gift" when you book your consultation.
BOOK HERE BELOW
Payment
Prices are a guideline only
€0,- Initial Consultation/intake
€100 per 1h online as part of a pack of 6*
*Details discussed during the initial consultation, in-person sessions possible.
€0,- Initial Consultation/intake
€100 per 1h online as part of a pack of 6*
*Details discussed during the initial consultation, in-person sessions possible.
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Maral Kojayan MA HPD Clinical Hypnotherapist M: +31 644 256 844 (NL) M: +44 785 588 3967 (UK) E: clarityflowhypnotherapy.com Messenger: m.me/ClarityFlowHypnotherapy |
